I got tired of explaining what I actually wanted on generic apps. I missed when meeting someone felt like luck instead of logistics. My last match asked me to explain my job twice and then unmatched mid-sentence. A college friend is now married thanks to this Asian Women Dating site and the cultural shorthand nobody else got needed no explaining here. It felt different from the very first message, and it still does. My calendar, my mood and my group chat all approve of the decision.